Child custody disputes are never easy, and when conflict runs high, the process can be overwhelming for parents and children alike. In California, family courts focus on the child’s best interests— health, safety, and emotional well- being—while also encouraging contact with both parents when appropriate.
High-conflict cases often involve repeated court hearings, allegations of abuse or neglect, poor communication, or one parent attempting to alienate the child from the other. These situations require more than standard custody arrangements and often call for added legal and psychological support.
Courts may order custody evaluations, appoint an attorney to represent the child, limit visitation through supervision, or create detailed parenting plans to reduce conflict. Mediation is usually required, but in high-conflict cases, specialized co-parenting classes, coordinators, or “parallel parenting” strategies may be recommended. Because these cases are complex, having an experienced family law attorney is essential.
The right legal guidance can protect your child’s stability while easing stress for your family. In the end, the goal is not to “win” against the other parent, but to ensure your child’s safety and emotional development.
About Arlene:
Engaged for decades in the Northern California legal community, Arlene D. Kock is a past member of the Alameda County Bar Association (ACBA) Board of Directors. She served on their Attorney Referral Panel for many years and was the past chair of their Ethics and Civility Committee. In her capacity on that committee, Arlene was instrumental in assisting the team in preparing and creating the ACBA statement of professionalism and civility, a policy that is expected to be adhered to today by the court and litigants. She is currently a member of the ACBA and the Contra Costa County Bar Association.
